As Astoriadave noted, sometimes it is difficult to interpret the tone of posts, and it seems you feel our comments were personal attacks; I can assure you mine was not.
Julien said:
1. most of us don't know you (if any), so have no idea if you are an assh*le or not.
Thanks for giving me the benefit of the doubt.
Hmmm...here's an example...I could read this as an honest thanks, or I could assume you were being sacastic. The same words can mean the total opposite of themselves. I'll choose to assume the best.
You're welcome.
Julien said:
2. you made no point to mention that you wouldn't "expect to have it cranked to max volume all the time" when other campers are around.
Well, that's logical [sarcasm]: since I didn't say that I wouldn't have it cranked all the time, it certainly makes sense to assume that I would, and should be admonished not to, right?
Here, however, you've clearly indicated your sarcasm so there is no confusion. Perhaps I am lacking reading comprehension skills, but I understood your statement:
...which is a huge plus because when I was expecting to have in cranked to max volume all the time.
to mean you intend to use them "all the time". Is that incorrect? Regardless, whether you use them all the time or not, it will disturb others around you.
Julien said:
If I had posted a review of a tent, would people warn me not to pee in it?
No, but since you bring it up, I wouldn't advise it.
However, the example isn't really the same; no one would expect you to pee in your tent, but since it is clear you intend to use your speakers, it isn't much of a stretch to think it
possible you might use them when others are around.
True, you didn't state you would. You say now that you obviously wouldn't, so it is nice to know that you are not "one of those" campers.
Julien said:
3. music travels long distances on/near the water; especially bass, which you pointed out "is remarkable for such a small unit".
How do you read into that that I would be inconsiderate to other campers?
Again, I don't think it was a stretch to think it
possible, given that we don't know you. But many of us have had to share campsites with those who would, and we're tired of those kinds of campers.
I have to deal with noise everyday. I live in an area where I hear traffic noise. There is a park across the street where teens like to hang out and make noise all night on Fridays/Saturdays. Sirens from firetrucks, police cars and ambulances. I work downtown, on a construction site. Phones constantly ringing, heavy equipment back-up beepers constantly going, power tools constantly running, things being dropped and banging around. Workers shouting to be heard. I paddle to try and get away from the racket of daily life...yet unfortunately even that can be noisy. Power boats, float planes, car alarms, Harleys...noisy campers. I even prefer to limit the amount I talk to others while paddling in a group.
I feel like the grinch complaining about all the noise, noise, noise! All I want is a little peace and quiet. :?
I bet I'd find it in a sanitarium...
Julien said:
4. as much as kayakers hope for a beach/campsite to ourselves, this often isn't the case. While you may not see another camper from your site, the other side of the island or around a point may have other campers. Refer to point 3.
You're assuming something else to support the original assumption.
You're right. But just because you can't see other campers around, doesn't mean there aren't. While it is now clear wouldn't intentionally disturb others with your music, you may inadvertently do so in thinking no one else was around.
Julien said:
I don't believe anyone accused you of being an assh*le, we just (tried to) politely point out that not everyone wants to hear other campers' music.
Call it what you will, but just adding "politely" in a message doesn't change the fact it was ignorant and assuming. And why would you feel the need to state such an obvious fact?
If you feel my post was ignorant and assuming, I apologize. As I stated earlier, it wasn't my intent to offend you.
I stated the obvious because I've found that as much as I'd like to believe all kayakers have the same desire for peace and quiet, the same respect for the wild places we visit, and the same intentions to limit our impact and evidence of our being there...they don't. One of the great things about kayaking is that anyone can do it; it is not exclusive nor elitist. One of the downsides of kayaking is that anyone can do it; even people who like to listen to music while camping. I can only hope that those who do, do not realize how much it bothers others, and if they did, would respect their right to not hear anything other than waves, wind, and wildlife.
I'm glad to hear you respect other people, but you have to admit so many do not.
Julien said:
Now...would you like a cuppa tea?
The humor is actually refreshing. However, I would prefer a beer over tea and, no, I wouldn't leave my can on the beach.
:lol: I'm with you about the beer. At least we don't have to hold our pinky fingers out and eat microscopic sandwiches.